Dealing With Failure.

Failure can be anything from a failed trip, big losses, failed exams, failed interview, failed relationship, inability to keep your promises, a manuscript rejection or that thing you know. It is not a cup of tea to any of us at first sight and can be quite devastating. But on a second consideration and on a positive perception, it is not quite a killer thing but a useful learning experience. Have you not learnt how not to do things just like Thomas Edison did for about 10,000 times? Oh yeah! This must be a check point to success you can say.
Life has a lot to offer. While we work to achieve our best, we should not expect the process to be a smooth sail.  Those who understand that failure is part of the process go far. They find ways of learning from failure and the tenacity, resilience and a bounce back technique which help them not to remain at the ground when this failure lands them there. When they mess- they find out what happened and find a solution and that way, they learn. This is what really matters. Bill Gates, the founder of Microsoft says that “It’s fine to celebrate success but it is more important to heed the lessons of failure.”
Successful people have a way of accepting their flaws and working out for better ways of solving it. This group understands that our past failure has never defined who we are and that it is how we deal with whatever happens to us in life that matters. Life requires a strong resilience and a stronger inner personality which will keep you going even when you feel like giving up.
“In order to succeed, your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure.” – Bill Cosby