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Teach your child before society teach for you! 1: Warn your Girl Child Never to sit on anyone's laps no matter the situation including uncles. 2: Avoid Getting Dressed in front of your child once he/she is 2 years old. Learn to excuse them or yourself. 3. Never allow any adult refer to your child as 'my wife' or 'my husband' 4. Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they do, because young people now sexually abuse themselves. 5. Never force your child to visit any adult he or she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult. 6. Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you may need to patiently ask lots of questions from your child. 7. Carefully educate your grown ups about the right values of sex . If you don't, the society will teach them the wrong values. 8: It is always advisable you go through any new Material like ca...

Attitude and Behavior of a Winner W inners are not born so; they make themselves winners in life by charting the paths leading to their goals and aims in life. A winner is a self-made person. You must face all eventualities, obstacles and adversities with vigor and passion just as you deal with happy times in your life. Do not accept unexpected challenges of life meekly, sit back, watch, or let things take their own course. Use your fighting spirit to battle any adversities. You are a winner, cheering others guiding, and mentoring them while also pursuing your own goals in life. Your spirit to excel will establish yourself on your chosen path. This positive attitude adds quality to your life and also helps to develop a better quality of life for those around you. You can improve the quality of life of all who meet you. Disappointments are stepping-stones to your success. To become a winner, take upsets in your stride. You can learn from your mistakes an...

Be Self-Disciplined Self-discipline means you imposing discipline upon you. You control your urges for your own good. This develops your willpower so that you can face harder challenges in life. You develop your ability to ignore unnecessary impulses and accept only necessary and good impulses. It gives you the stamina to overcome mental, physical and emotional setbacks. Self-discipline adds more meaning to your life. You control your actions and behavior. You do not become the servant of your desires. You do not yield to unnecessary temptations as they are not conducive to your well-being. Instead, by being self-disciplined, you get enormous inner strength and increased capability to decide in good and bad situations. A serious effort on your part can help you become self-disciplined and overcome any perceived shortcomings. Develop self-discipline by practicing certain techniques in your daily life consistently. Thereafter, it becomes a habit and...

How to Turn an Adversity into Opportunity Adversity and prosperity are two sides of a coin. Just as you are happy in times of prosperity, you need to be equally positive in hard times to turn adversities into profitable opportunities. It is not possible to always have only good times. Learn to take in any positive elements from your mistakes and adversities. Setbacks give you a jolt so that you find it difficult to concentrate or go further with your earlier zeal. Certain factors help turn adversity into opportunity Understand your meaning of success Success is a relative term. Do not consider your setbacks as failures when you do not match others’ levels of success. Believe in yourself and your capabilities. Visualize your success and goals as an independent house, or dream vacation and live life according to your rules. Maintain your viewpoint Do not judge your capabilities by a single failure. Do not label yourself a failure in life just becaus...

What It Takes to Become a Winner Y ou are what you believe yourself to be - it is that simple. You can do what you have in your mind to accomplish. There is no place for any adversities to block your path. You can become a winner when you learn to have full confidence in yourself and your abilities. www.kapkiaitheoptimist.blogspot.com The moment you start doubting your own capabilities, you are becoming negative. Being negative leads you nowhere or rather, it only increases the chance of failure. Winning does not have any relation whatsoever to your physical looks or any regional classifications. Education and background do have a role to play in forming your personality but they are not the determinants that chart your course in life. You can find innumerable people who have achieved success in their respective fields with very little or almost no education. To become a winner, take up challenges as they occur and meet them eye-to eye. Never back out of you...