Optimist

The 'kababa' generation is fully grown up now and they were never taught how to take NO for an answer. Always got what they wanted. This is the same group that was burning down schools, now they are out in the world slaughtering each other in the name of love, yet love is kind, love is patient and keeps no record of wrong. The Kababa generation has gone through schooling with no punishment. Piga mtoto wangu utaniona, is what we hear in parent-teachers meetings and in the estates neighbor to neighbor. It is the generation that the girl child is more empowered than the boy child, yet we expect them to compete at the same levels. Boys are teaching themselves how to become men instead of being taught by responsible men what it means to be a real man. The mums never let them interact with the dad or uncles or male relatives coz walikosana na baba, or had beef with inlaws or feel the uncles are too hard on her kababa, my munchkin , my king, my bae, my love, my man in the house a...

Sometime back , my friends laughed at me that I had only one pair of brown shoes , yet they had all types of heels  but it dint break me because I knew my children needed food , shelter, medication and clothing , this was priority, they laughed because they didn't  know my story , and what  God had for me in store today I have wadrobes of shoes , yet I can only put on one pair at a time  the hunger of new shoes left me when I  realized new shoes doesn't make a person new ! I was hungry for owning homes , today I can only sleep in one bed and be at one place at a time, some homes have not seen me since 5 months, I recieved photos of rats dealing with the kitchen properly Today I am tired of shopping for it only adds baggage in my wadrobes , after puting it on taking pictures , I dont feel like putting it on again  I wanted to own cars , yes all came to pass . The hunger of wanting doesn't stop, the more you get the more you want , and the higher you go , you...

Sometime back , my friends laughed at me that I had only one pair of brown shoes , yet they had all types of heels  but it dint break me because I knew my children needed food , shelter, medication and clothing , this was priority, they laughed because they didn't  know my story , and what  God had for me in store today I have wadrobes of shoes , yet I can only put on one pair at a time  the hunger of new shoes left me when I  realized new shoes doesn't make a person new ! I was hungry for owning homes , today I can only sleep in one bed and be at one place at a time, some homes have not seen me since 5 months, I recieved photos of rats dealing with the kitchen properly Today I am tired of shopping for it only adds baggage in my wadrobes , after puting it on taking pictures , I dont feel like putting it on again  I wanted to own cars , yes all came to pass . The hunger of wanting doesn't stop, the more you get the more you want , and the higher you go , you...

When the baboons and monkeys heard that the man who used to chase them away from the maize field had died they hysterically celebrated. The following year there was no maize. that's when they painfully realised the dead man was the farmer Under all conditions learn to live with your enemies. You might reject them now but soon you will realize that they were the only pillars you needed.

Winners are obsessed with the idea of reinventing themselves, their careers and their businesses, they believe in going through a process of metamorphosis every six to twelve months, because they know that to be a leader the rate of change within must be faster than the rate of change without, so if your desire is to create a new life, to transform your deep experiences,here are best practices to help you foster change; 1. Forgive those who hurt you badly When you hold on to past hurts, you internalize the nature of the hurt, and what you internalize you reproduce. To keep hating someone who abused you is to risk becoming an abuser yourself, to keep hating on someone who broke your heart is building a permanent monument of bitterness, so to become new totally forgive. 2. Envision a New Life. Here is the reason why God gave you a mind, to use the imaginative faculty to create new experiences! You are awesomely powerful, you are not an animal that just lives by instinct,you are spiri...

A River flows across many obstacles, when it meets Rocks, it never negotiates with them, it creates it's own way and flows on. It finds trees, thorns, it flows on without negotiations. It is so Powerful that people build Bridges to cross it, when it floods, it carries those who underestimate it mercilessly. Don't negotiate with your obstacles. By faith create your own way and flow on and the Almighty God will give you strength and courage. The happiness of your life  depends on the quality of your thoughts. Your mind is a magnet, If you think of blessings,  you  attract blessings; and if you think of problems, you  attract problems. Always cultivate good thoughts and always remain positive and optimistic. Train your mind to see the good in everything. Positivity is a choice. Continue to flow despite obstacles.

Bring smile unto someone's face, show love,reach out to less fortunate,sit with them,chat with them,let them share their experiences with you, you may not have much to give them but listen to them,appreciate them,thank them. Do this because we are all humans irrespective of who we are or what we posses. Someday in life we shall remember mostly what we did to others,it will give us sense of living,it will give us strength to go through life and a real meaning of life. The little things you do to others count much,and this things are very cheap like smile,helping them in a ceremony by assigning yourself a task,being with them is all what they need. If you don't go where people are nobody will come to you. You will drink tea alone every morning from January to December because you have never dared to drink in someone's place. Life has a meaning if something's are shared. Have everything in life without people and you have nothing but have people who cares you,love you,...