Optimist

Winners are obsessed with the idea of reinventing themselves, their careers and their businesses, they believe in going through a process of metamorphosis every six to twelve months, because they know that to be a leader the rate of change within must be faster than the rate of change without, so if your desire is to create a new life, to transform your deep experiences,here are best practices to help you foster change; 1. Forgive those who hurt you badly When you hold on to past hurts, you internalize the nature of the hurt, and what you internalize you reproduce. To keep hating someone who abused you is to risk becoming an abuser yourself, to keep hating on someone who broke your heart is building a permanent monument of bitterness, so to become new totally forgive. 2. Envision a New Life. Here is the reason why God gave you a mind, to use the imaginative faculty to create new experiences! You are awesomely powerful, you are not an animal that just lives by instinct,you are spiri...

A River flows across many obstacles, when it meets Rocks, it never negotiates with them, it creates it's own way and flows on. It finds trees, thorns, it flows on without negotiations. It is so Powerful that people build Bridges to cross it, when it floods, it carries those who underestimate it mercilessly. Don't negotiate with your obstacles. By faith create your own way and flow on and the Almighty God will give you strength and courage. The happiness of your life  depends on the quality of your thoughts. Your mind is a magnet, If you think of blessings,  you  attract blessings; and if you think of problems, you  attract problems. Always cultivate good thoughts and always remain positive and optimistic. Train your mind to see the good in everything. Positivity is a choice. Continue to flow despite obstacles.

Bring smile unto someone's face, show love,reach out to less fortunate,sit with them,chat with them,let them share their experiences with you, you may not have much to give them but listen to them,appreciate them,thank them. Do this because we are all humans irrespective of who we are or what we posses. Someday in life we shall remember mostly what we did to others,it will give us sense of living,it will give us strength to go through life and a real meaning of life. The little things you do to others count much,and this things are very cheap like smile,helping them in a ceremony by assigning yourself a task,being with them is all what they need. If you don't go where people are nobody will come to you. You will drink tea alone every morning from January to December because you have never dared to drink in someone's place. Life has a meaning if something's are shared. Have everything in life without people and you have nothing but have people who cares you,love you,...

Single story is having one story about someone or a place. When one negative side of a  story is told over and over again makes people believe that its true. None of us is made of a single story,we are sum of many stories which makes us who we are, but when someone repetitively refer us to that one story which we failed, is absurd. Though we felled down then but we dusted ourselves off and we are now better than then, we are stronger and happier. We learned from what we went through, improve our weakness and now we are better persons than yesterday. Yes there are those times we were struggling to make both ends meet, and do you know what, we managed. There were those times you heard of us facing difficulties but waded through and came out victoriously. We are no longer where you left us, we have moved, we crossed that full river by Gods grace and now we are in the other side. We are confronting day to day challenges of life but we are certain that we are going to win. We are...

I have discovered that love doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship. Love cannot help you stick to one person all years round, and on the other hand, cheating isn't always a product of not loving your partner. In fact, loving someone doesn't guarantee not falling in love with someone else. Relationships work out mostly because of our head not our heart. It works out because of our emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence and self-discipline, because time will come when you'll see more beautiful, handsome, romantic, intelligent, sexy, rich, curvy and God fearing people than the one you are in a relationship with. In those times, love will not help you; self-control will help you, emotional intelligence will come to your rescue and commitment will keep you going. With those characteristics, no matter how you feel for someone else, the person you are committed to will rank first in your life. You think happily married people don't see better people th...

Surround yourself with the dreamers and the doers, the believers and thinkers, but most of all surround yourself with those who see the greatness within you, even when you don't see yourself. By: Edmund Lee

Forgiveness There is no perfect family. We do not have perfect parents,we are not perfect. We do not marry a perfect person or we do not have perfect children.We have complaints from each other.We are constantly disappointed. There is no healthy marriage or healthy family without the exercise of forgiveness. Forgiveness is vital to our emotional health and spiritual survival. Without forgiveness, the family becomes an arena of conflict and a fortress of evil.  Without forgiveness, the family becomes sick.  Forgiveness is the asepsis of the soul, the purification of the spirit and the liberation of the heart. He who does not forgive does not have peace in his soul or communion with God. Evil is a poison that intoxicates and kills. Keeping heartache in your heart is a self-destructive gesture. It's autophagy.  Those who do not forgive are physically, emotionally and spiritually ill. For this reason, the family must be a place of life and not a place of death; a pl...