Optimist

1. Have a firm handshake. 2. Look people in the eye. 3. Sing in the shower. 4. Own a great stereo system. 5. If in a fight, hit first and hit hard. 6. Keep secrets. 7. Never give up on anybody. Miracles happen everyday. 8. Always accept an outstretched hand. 9. Be brave. Even if you're not, pretend to be. No one can tell the difference. 10. Whistle. 11. Avoid sarcastic remarks. 12. Choose your life's mate carefully. From this one decision will come 90 per cent of all your happiness or misery. 13. Make it a habit to do nice things for people who will never find out. 14. Lend only those books you never care to see again. 15. Never deprive someone of hope; it might be all that they have. 16. When playing games with children, let them win. 17. Give people a second chance, but not a third. 18. Be romantic. 19. Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know. 20. Loosen up. Relax. Except for rare life-and-death matters, nothing is as important as it firs...

Karma. Karma is 'what we do now comes back to us again in the near or distant future.' Kole kalenjinn: 'metupe ne morutu' 'Mekole ne moipisu' 'Weeksei uruombo ket' " Tara maek inye ne kakilenji 'pwoot' eng kokwe,moibore eng boisioniguk" Tos mongen okwek ole ng'alek alak ko Alak! Oguyen is! And I put like this " oechin sobetab chi eng ngwonduni ak atebenyin, ikoiti sobet atebwogik che miach. Do good and good will come back to you some day. Let no one shade tears because of you. Let's not use the little we have bn blessed with to suppress or silence others,there is God of life and justice watching and some day He may humble us.

Six years ago a time like now I was in tears, helpless and had hit rock bottom. I had a six month old son and had CS complications. I was in the sitting room cuddling my boy when my husband arrived with a lady- a very beautiful lady. I had nothing to worry about since we had been in good terms although my sixth sense smelt a rat. They came in and before we could finish greetings and introductions, I saw the watchman pulling in some suitcases. Jesus something wasnt right now!!!! My heart was pounding. The lady did not sit and she asked my husband, “WHAT IS THIS RAG DOING HERE?” I cleared my eyes to ensure it wasn’t a dream. She said that either I leave immediately or she leaves. He told me to do as she instructed because he was tired of my nagging, just being there like a log. Those words cut deep like a two edged sword. I was still in pain from the cs wound, no job and my boy unwell. A new wife was home and i had to leave before both of them threw me out. I took a f...

Six years ago a time like now I was in tears, helpless and had hit rock bottom. I had a six month old son and had CS complications. I was in the sitting room cuddling my boy when my husband arrived with a lady- a very beautiful lady. I had nothing to worry about since we had been in good terms although my sixth sense smelt a rat. They came in and before we could finish greetings and introductions, I saw the watchman pulling in some suitcases. Jesus something wasnt right now!!!! My heart was pounding. The lady did not sit and she asked my husband, “WHAT IS THIS RAG DOING HERE?” I cleared my eyes to ensure it wasn’t a dream. She said that either I leave immediately or she leaves. He told me to do as she instructed because he was tired of my nagging, just being there like a log. Those words cut deep like a two edged sword. I was still in pain from the cs wound, no job and my boy unwell. A new wife was home and i had to leave before both of them threw me out. I took a f...

Someone will always be prettier. Someone will always be smarter. Someone's house will be bigger. Someone will drive a better car. Someone will earn more. Someone will travel more. Just let it go. Take care of yourself. Love yourself and your circumstances. The prettiest, slimmest woman in the world may have sadness in her heart. The most highly favored woman in your office may not be able to have children. The richest woman you know may have the car, the house, and the clothes - but might be very lonely. So, love yourself. Love who you are right now. Tell yourself "I am too blessed to be stressed." Be well. Be happy. Be blessed. "To the world you might be one person, but to one person you just might be the world". Courtesy of James Wamae Gitare - fb

Steve Jobs’ Last Words I reached the pinnacle of success in the business world. In others’ eyes, my life is an epitome of success. However, aside from work, I have little joy. In the end, wealth is only a fact of life that I am accustomed to. At this moment, lying on the sick bed and recalling my whole life, I realize that all the recognition and wealth that I took so much pride in, have paled and become meaningless in the face of impending death. In the darkness, I look at the green lights from the life supporting machines and hear the humming mechanical sounds, I can feel the breath of god of death drawing closer… Now I know, when we have accumulated sufficient wealth to last our lifetime, we should pursue other matters that are unrelated to wealth… Should be something that is more important: Perhaps relationships, perhaps art, perhaps a dream from younger days Non-stop pursuing of wealth will only turn a person into a twisted being, just like me. God ...

         The  Bible 1.Be silent In the heat of anger - (Prov 14:17) 2. Be silent When you don't have all the facts - (Prov 18:13) 3. Be silent When you haven't verified the story - (Deut 17:6) 4. Be silent If your words will offend a weaker person - (1 Cor 8:11) 5. Be silent When it is time to listen - (Prov 13:1) 6. Be silent when you are tempted to make light of holy things - (Eccl 5:2) 7. Be silent When you are tempted to joke about sin - (Prov 14:9) 8. Be silent If you would be ashamed of your words later - (Prov 8:8) 9. Be silent If your words would convey the wrong impression - (Prov 17:27) 10. Be silent If the issue is none of your business - (Prov 14:10) 11. Be silent When you are tempted to tell an outright lie - (Prov 4:24) 12. Be silent If your words will damage someone else's reputation - (Pro 16:27) 13. Be silent If your words will damage a friendship - (Prov 16:28) 14. Be silent When you are feeling critical - (Ja...