Optimist

Like trees in the field or forest are human beings. Trees are of different types,sizes and serves different purposes. Some trees are taller others are smaller but each serves its main purpose of existence.  Not all trees are medicinal,others are toxic and poisonous but all live in the same forest, no tree has desired to uproot the other other, each live for a purpose and its reason of existence. The poisonous and toxic trees are  important because it serves other purposes too. The smaller trees never wish to have been tall, and taller trees never wished to have been smaller, each are proud of their opportunity to exist and serve its purpose. As humans we shall never ever be the same but we shall always be important.

Stay true to yourself. Don’t worry about what people think of you or about the way they try to make you feel. If people want to see you as a good person, they will. If they want to see you as a bad person, absolutely nothing you do will stop them.  Ironically, the more you try to show them your good intentions, the more reason you give them to knock you down if they are commited to misunderstanding you. Keep your head up high and be confident in what you do.  Be confident in your intentions and keep your eyes ahead instead of wasting your time on those who want to drag you back. Because you can’t change people’s views, you have to believe that true change for yourself comes from within you, not from anyone else.

Sometimes, we need to forgive the person who wronged us, regardless if they apologize or not. Because, it is for our own peace of mind and it is like starting a new chapter in our life. We don't need to cling to the wrong things they have done to us. We must be thankful that it happened and we must not cry over it again and again.  We need to smile because it happened. Because when you forgive, it takes away the burden that you've been carrying. Because when you forgive, you will be happy. and because forgiving is for your personal growth. Forgiveness, is one of the hardest thing to do. It's not an overnight effect that you can immediately forgive someone. It takes a lot of tries like, twice thrice or perhaps a couple of times. Forgiving someone is a tool for own peace. Do not prolong your agony!  Life is too short to grieve over something that can be forgiven. Live life while you have it.

There was once a king who was so cruel and unjust that his subjects yearned for his death or dethronement. However, one day he surprised them all by announcing that he had decided to turn over a new leaf. “No more cruelty, no more injustice,” he promised, and he was as good as his word. He became known as the ‘Gentle Monarch’. Months after his transformation one of his ministers plucked up enough courage to ask him what had brought about his change of heart. And the king answered, “As I was galloping through my forests I caught sight of a fox being chased by a hound. The fox escaped into his hole but not before the hound had bitten into its leg and lamed it for life. Later I rode into a village and saw the same hound there. It was barking at a man. Even as I watched, the man picked up a huge stone and flung it at the dog, breaking its leg. The man had not gone far when he was kicked by a horse. His knee was shattered and he fell to the ground, disabled f...

As a man was passing the elephants, he suddenly stopped, confused by the fact that these huge creatures were being held by only a small rope tied to their front leg. No chains, no cages. It was obvious that the elephants could, at anytime can break away from their bonds but for some reason, they did not. He saw a trainer nearby and asked why these animals just stood there and made no attempt to get away. “Well,” trainer said, “when they are very young and much smaller we use the same size rope to tie them and, at that age, it’s enough to hold them. As they grow up, they are conditioned to believe they cannot break away. They believe the rope can still hold them, so they never try to break free.” The man was amazed. These animals could at any time break free from their bonds but because they believed they couldn’t, they were stuck right where they were. Like the elephants, how many of us go through life hanging onto a belief that we cannot do somet...

Research Shows Parents Who Raise Successful Kids Do These Things Differently Kids are going to end up defining what success looks like to them as they grow up, but parents who raise kids who are happy, healthy and independent do these 10 things differently from other parents . Your role as a parent lasts a lifetime, but your role in their development is crucial. How can you find a balance between molding them and letting them mold themselves? Let’s look at 10 things that research shows parents who raise successful kids do differently. RESEARCH REVEALS: PARENTS WHO RAISE ‘SUCCESSFUL’ KIDS DO THESE 10 THINGS 1. LET THEM FAIL Persistence is what parents who raise successful kids are teaching when they allow kids to fail in small ways without rushing in to rescue them. Learning to get back up after a fall builds determination to carry on. 2. TEACH THE MEANING OF GRATITUDE Spend time with those who have less, who have lost, or who are fighting a battle beyond what yo...

Every king was once a crying baby and every building was once a picture. The person you admire so much was once nobody, the most anointed man you see was once a church member. The person you attended his or her wedding was once a chief bachelor or spinster. So why worry in life ?! Its not about where you are today but where you will reach tomorrow. Alphabet “O” which stands for Opportunity, is absent in “yesterday” but available once in “tOday” And Thrice in tomorrow. Do not worry about anything, go out and do your best with believe and hope that all will be okay. Strong people are made of hope and investment on their abilities. You call them small achievement of life, but mark them, they will sprout thousand fruits. It will surprise you how it will turn to feed your family and your generation lineage. No situation is permanent. Like clouds they came and go. The past will not deter you from achieving your dreams. The past is not and will not be the measure of your future,no, just t...