Optimist

Buying a house?  Close your mouth. Buying a new car?  Close your mouth. Getting married?  Close your mouth. Going on a holiday?  Close your mouth. Going to do a course?  Close your mouth. Got promoted?  Close your mouth. 99% of the time the reason that our dreams/visions don't come true when they are supposed to, is because we open our mouth too soon to the wrong people at the wrong time. We were wrong to share our projects/successes with people who claim to be "friends".  The envy and the low key jealousy is enough for people to feed off of and tear down what COULD HAVE BEEN, before it even happens, so Close your mouth. The majority of your "friends", want to see you do well but Never better than them, And just a reminder!  Even family members have a hidden envy. But, they can't stop what God has for you.

When billionaire Femi Otedola in a telephone interview, was asked by the radio presenter, "Sir what can you remember made you a happy man in life?" Femi said: “I have gone through four stages of happiness in life and finally I understood the meaning of true happiness. The first stage was to accumulate wealth and means. But at this stage I did not get the happiness I wanted. Then came the second stage of collecting valuables and items. But I realized that the effect of this thing is also temporary and the lustre of valuable things does not last long. Then came the third stage of getting big projects. That was when I was holding 95% of diesel supply in Nigeria and Africa. I was also the largest vessel owner in Africa and Asia. But even here I did not get the happiness I had imagined. The fourth stage was the time a friend of mine asked me to buy wheelchair for some disabled children. Just about 200 kids. At the friend's request, I immediately bought the wheelchairs. B...

Don't tire of doing little things for others, because sometimes those little things occupy the biggest part of their heart. In life we cannot always do great things, but, as Mother Teresa said,  we can always do small things with great love. At the end it is not only about making a living, it is about making a difference. Adopted From: Mercy Chesumat Fb.

Whenever you are dealing with people, you must always remember that there is tomorrow and you might need them tomorrow. You may end up needing help from the people who are asking for your help today so help them. Life is like a moving wheel, sometimes you are up and sometimes you are down. Sometimes we destroy the bridges that we might need to help us cross back tomorrow. Sometimes we treat people as though there is never going to be tomorrow. We sometimes act as though we will never need help from any one. Remember there's tomorrow. Joseph helped the cupbearer in prison and later the cupbearer connected Joseph with Pharaoh. Imagine how Portiphar’s wife felt when she heard that Joseph was now the Governor of Egypt after she had falsely accused him. The brothers who sold Joseph away ended up being fed by him. Don't ever think of going to the extreme with your offenders, they might be rescuers tomorrow. Always remember there is tomorrow and it will surely come. The little ...

She prescribed 30 rules quoted from the Bible on how a changed woman should behave. The first ten are: Never raise your voice at your husband for any reason. Its a sign of disrespect (prov 15:1) Don’t expose your husband’s weaknesses to your family and friends. You are each other’s keeper (Eph 5v12) Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them (prov 15:13) Never compare your husband to other men, you’ve no idea what their life is like Never ill treat your husband’s friends because you don’t like them, the person who is supposed to get rid of them is your husband (prov11v22) Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else (Gen 2v24) Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility (Eph 5v33) Never blame your husband if he comes home empty handed rather encourage him (Deut ...

1. YOUR FRIENDS When you hang around some friends they will be OK with you being average. Because they are not progressing, they will also i with them as you pursue that Masters or PhD,  or as you invest in growing yourself.  They will want you to still keep doing the things you used to do years ago. If they have messed up lovelifes, they will encourage you to stay single and fool around or damage your marriage 2. YOUR ENEMIES Those people many call haters can make you use so much of your energy defending yourself, fighting them and proving points to them instead of using that energy to build yourself. Stop being distracted by those who are not for you and who don't believe in you 3. YOUR AFFAIR PARTNER An affair is an enemy of progress. Affairs are temporary thrills going nowhere. They lead to huge losses of money, time and damaged legitimate relationships and marriages. Say no 4. YOUR PASTOR Some pastors will overspiritualize or demonise everything, they can control ...

Final Stages for becoming a witch! If you look at your siblings, cousins, friends, neighbors or any other person doing well in life for themselves and your heart develops pain, wake up, go pray. You are in final stages of becoming a witch. If someone’s happiness is giving you pains in the heart, go and pray. You are a potential witch. If someone’s great relationship is giving you pain in the heart that you secretly wish them a break-up, go pray. You are a potential witch. Witchcraft starts with your unhappiness about people’s happiness. Those negative thoughts in your mind are a recipe for witchcraft. Go and pray. Ask God for deliverance